Some sad and disappointing news i heard.
Some people just LOVE to cause other family to break up. Cannot tahan this type of person.
If your life had been so bad , please dun affect others too. Causing kinship to break up. KAO!
If you didn't complain so much, why the other will call up and make a big fuss to me? Is this so-call "its his business???" <-- huh huh? when you call and complain and make a big fuss? Showing your craziness????? KAO!!!
First of all, you engross in talking your way out of your rudeness to me and my kins while i'm talking to you. Only hearing what you seems deem, Not listening to others talking. Speculating without finding the truth. What the hell?? Talking my last few words instead of my whole sentence to you and go around spreading 'news' and telling your so-call 'wei qu'... come on lar, if you can't take real advise then dun go around asking for 'fake' truths... You think you what? QUEEN????
asking inrelevence people to comment when you yourself know exactly whats going on. come on. Stop saying you dun want to'act' anymore, yet you are doing it all the time.. Think back on what you say and do. Stop complaining on the things you had chosen. Its what you chose but you complain so ridiculously. Find faults with people is what you do BEST. If you critic so much about others? Have you ever look at your true self? Ask yourself in the mirror and sit down and reflect. Scolding other people's mother and brother in front of the family member. You must be something wrong. I dun need you to tell me things between me and my mil. Anyway even after all things happen, we are still happily talking, eating together, thinkingg of going hoilday trips. Cos we have clear all our things, unlike you... If you dunno my things, then shut the ** up. Situations you dunno you dun comment so much. Anyway i had never tell you the whole thing, so you dun think you know everything!
Marriage is for life. Cooperation is needed. That makes 'FAMILY'. Being red-eyed, love to compare, 'huai hen zai xin' and revengeful is totally a no-no behaviour. You chose your own road, dun blame others but blame on yourself. Instead of comparing, you and make things out yourself lar! Complain of $$??? Go earn lar!!! Its your share too okie!! Tell your partner yourself. Its your partner already , teaching is from you not from other people's parents. You are the wife now, so you teach yourself. Dun complain people's mother never teach properly. Anyway have you ever think about yourself too in this aspect?
Different family have different culture. Not up for you to criticise and say. Can't accept? too bad. But you dun have to come telling the family how they should do things. You dun grown up in that family for goodness sake. You got no right to say. Did other people say you and your family???? huh huh?? no cos they know this Dao Li.. Nobody is perfect okie!!! Dun expect but accept what others are.
say other not forgiving and forget, how about yourself? have you heard yourself complaining abt the past?? why ppl dun want to do it for you? cos of your attitude and how you treated them last time. People already very nice by not rebarking you on the spot already yet you 'act' drama.. Causing family quarrels. Yet on the other hand , you dare to admit you are a 'family' person. Total hyprocrite to me.
People are just pissed with what you did and said. Depression? No way for what you said soooo clearly..I dun need you to tell me how your mil had lived in the past and how she will treat others with it. I dun need you to tell me that you throw her away her goodness into the dustbin and yet saying why she didn't cook it instead. You have a house, a kitchen of your own. You are a mother yourself. You didn't even go market/ cook for your family. But you EXPECT others to cook for you. Wake up from your ideas from expectations. So much more hurtful things from you... *TSK* pissed*
Well, you mess with the wrong person. ME!
I'm not those people who can be bullied me and my famiy around. Well if for those who are willingly like to be bullied, i got nothing to say cos its their choice. But i can't stand people who say their own parents, when not seeing the whole whole picture and listening properly to truths. Listen to only one-sided story. If this is the case, too bad. You are just not worthy of my help and care or even love.
Yes i say things very straight forward or crude. BUT I do think for days before i confront the person. If i say it out, it will be pure truths from my heart. Well, truths hurts. Yes. Thats the fact. Either you accept it or you can just be angry abt it. Thats my opinion. If i dare to say, i dare to face the consequences. But if people put words in my mouth, THATS IT that i'm gonna take. No face to be given.
"You are part of a family, if there's a prob 2 have to find ways to solve instead of complain so much. If you were to complain so so so much, saying how much you can't take it and complain abt $$ and things people didn't do it for you, dun you find that you are not suitable to have a baby now? If you complain so much abt your partner, why start up a family so fast with him when you say so much bad thing about him, even after the marriage is for so long???" ...
Am i doing too extreme? Well this are the truths... I guess nobody tells you this truth to you..
Why all things turn ugly? First of all, look at what you had done in the first place and cause for all these commotions. Listen what you had said to others and think about what you did. Cause so much hurt to others, and thinking things will come your way when you do the simpliest things after that, so whats there to expect? Distance away from you is the result.
I dun find me returning the baby clothes and toys back to you is a childlish thing. Why? First of all things, i dun want in the future you complain to others like how you complain to me how badly she had used of your baby things. Secondly, my baby clothes are as high as a mole hill. Too Many! No time to use yours too. Thirdly, all toys already either have or some spolit before i even use them. And i have too many!! Lastly, After all things happen , why would i even want to have any affiliation with you? Faster distance better arh! Wait you show your craziness again!
Further instructions had been send down to me, bother too much okie! This is my own problem no need for you to say so much. Woo.. Fine. I didn't want to say but in my given position, i think i should say something when someone insulted my family and me. So much more of hearing this words.. "dun know how to be a mother to teach her own son" "useless" "i do that at least not like you to do those things with your mil" ----> who is she to comment all those things?????
You Just do what you shoud do and dun try to add credits to what you did. What you other things you do, did you dare to say or admit??? Kaoz...
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Okie i had ranted it out. This is my blog and i can do whatever to it...
I always love the way my hubby take care of Ayden. Its so heart-warming.. But my hubby can be very hao lian de.. He told me at our tea at the NUSS Guild at Suntec, with his mother, Auntie, Sister and lil Andrew, that he was praised by his aunt. She told her that she observed him during lunch til now (which is during tea time) and she find that he's really a good husband cos no men in the family would scoop rice for his wife and wait for her to come to the table to eat (normally its the other way round) and then whenever Ayden needed anything he would rush down or go and take the things.. thus also "patiently" <-- i differ this man!!! feed Ayden...
Finally... his new hairstyle.. Reward: a balloon..
Walk about in Toys'r'us
His 'dancing' position 
Before going out with Ah ma and Ah gong..
Searching for ?? 
You are forever my beloved lil' monster
