ღ Monday, 22 October 2007
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i'd just found this on my lappy... think i wrote out to my fren but somehow its in my lappy folder...lolx..my past complaint..I can really really understand your feelings!..
me and my MIL too having probs...
when i'm doing confinement (which she as supose to do for me) in the end only cook for me.. i still touch water, bathe, do housework, takng care of baby 24hrs myself (without DH help)... which this i can bear cos she's ultimately not my mother... but abit unhappy inside..
another thing, she bangs alot of noises which causes my DS to wake up alot... -_-"
another thing she doesnt know how to ake care of baby!!..YET she is alays wanting to take care of DS herself.. which is a definately NO no no for me... she didnt even know how to wear pampers!!!!...omg.. feeding from bottle (as i have engorement for a few days so have to use FM) also DUNNO!!!...YET she still insisting and complaining in the house that she can help...SH*TY lor..
then one night.. supposing my DH should help me change my DS diaper after i fed him with BM... he insisted i should go sleep to get some rest since its already 4am in the morning... its raining fyi... then in the end i heard my DS scream and crying next door... i woke up find my DH beside me sleeping.. i was like shocked!!.. then the next thing is my FIL came to my door asking for diaper!!... WTF?!?!?!...wat happen cos my DS is screaming?!?!... then somemore why m FIL came to my door ley??..
i ran to the room next door...finding my DS crying deperately on the bed of my SIL and my MIL sitting beside him with nappy liner in her hands and diaper in the floor.. WITH nothing prepared to change my son's diaper... he's only 2 weeks old and half-naked...with howling wind and rain pouring outside with no windows and door closed to change him...
I super pissed...i carried my son back to my room asap.. super angry lor!!..what if my son got a cold?!?!....
worse thing.. when morning breaks, i went to the kitchen, seen my MIL dunno doing what lar, then she complain that last night my child cry so long in my room, saying we (my hubby and i ) should carry him at least..
i straight away give no face, but i said with respect and soft tone.. " no lar, mother he cry only awhile mah. not even 3 mins long. we changing diaper."
she then keep insisting he cried very long and give a very black face.
wah i see le buay tahan. i siad" you carried him to chage diaper , his cries is worse lor." she not happy liao, then say no lar...i told her that next time she wants to change right, prepare beforehand and close windows and doors at least cos raining.. then she gives alot of excuses saying she already told my FIL to go take diaper le...i tell her lor, tats too late for preparation.. you already took off diaper even with no new diaper around... wats next is later she went to tell my DH that she dun want to take care of baby anymore, ask him to take care himself… and the best thing is SHE START TO SOB IN FRONT OF MY HUBBY!!... wtf…
then my DH came telling me off lor say I say his mother..
then I explain myself yet he protected his mother lor…
the thing I angry about is he didn’t even care on the matter whether my son’s is well taken care of anot lor…ß this super pissed me off…
this is just one of it.. sigh there’s more… she damn hypocrite one.. sigh~~~~~thinking back.. i find that how not good my MIL can take care of my child.. should i think twice again on letting her to take care????
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